Why you Can’t Connect to your Highest Self

You have meditated and tried to connect to no avail, and now you’re upset and frustrated? Don’t worry, I got you!

My name is Ro, your spirit guide and fellow traveler along this agape life journey!!

Some time ago I reached out to my friends and subscribers asking for their questions on life, spirituality and everything! Now I’m blogging/vlogging the answers hoping it helps more people like you! 

 

So first of all, forget everything you *think* is your highest self.

Forget all the “shoulds”.

Now, remember the latest time you felt genuinely Good.

Maybe something made you laugh, you helped someone, you made love, you mindfully ate a yummy slice of cake. Or you attended the concert of your favorite artist and bonded with fellow fans! Maybe you felt more like yourself, more present and grounded and safe. With or without a reason. A subtle feeling of calm and content.  A sensation of inner expansion and spaciousness, almost as if your body was growing bigger and higher…Or even amidst a tragic moment in your life, you still sensed that there was something more, you still felt held…

Got it?

Ta-da!! Guess what. That was you, being your Highest Self!!

In this world we are conditioned to think that we are not doing or being enough, in all areas of our lives! So, we overlook the (extra)ordinary and and ever=present ways our Highest Self already communicates with us, saying “it should be more than this”.

Actually, you can never not be your Highest Self, just as you can never not have a body or the skin color you were born with!

Being alive is being your Highest Self!!

You don’t need to see/feel something super “special” to prove yourself that you are connecting to your Essence, like a theatrical apparition or a voice from the sky. Usually your Highest Self is that soft intuition, the gut feeling, the excitement and curiosity. 

You ARE your Highest Self when…

When you snap out of the self-criticism, and choose kindness instead
When you give love a chance
When you see from a bigger perspective
The moments where you embrace life, others, the earth, the cosmos.
The moments you give yourself grace…

I repeat this again: you are always your Highest Self.
What often happens is that you simply forget~

You may learn to hide it, blur it or repress it due to external conditionings and pain, but it is always there

regardless of how much abuse you endured
regardless of the trauma you experienced,
regardless of how long you lived in survival mode
regardless of how fractured you feel
your Highest Self never left you
it is always with you, for you, AS You

I know it might feel pointless to even try. It might feel so hard to regain that trust in your own goodness and worth. All my love to you, who are fighting and not giving up on yourself!!

Let me tell you that, you are so fucking brave for being here and choosing yourself, for being curious about your spiritual experiences and opening your heart to love.

Just your very intention of healing is already working magic!

With all that, I invite you to see how your Highest self is already present in You, in your life and relationships ~ and amplify this!!

Follow the trail of the tiny joys and pleasures. Your inner connection doesn’t have to look like jumping on one leg and punching the air triumphantly. It can be peacefully enjoying a cup of tea, snuggled up on bed and feeling right where you need to be.

From here, invite your Higher Self to participate in your day with you. Stay open and curious. Begin to create your own way of conscious communication, like signs, tarot, meditation, journaling, number sequences, intuitive art. Something that comes naturally to you.

I hope this was helpful!! By the way, all this also applies to your connection with Spirit Guides!

Thank you so much for reading!

I’m excited to continue answering your questions in blog/vlog format, so hop on to my Discord or socials and message me! I’m so happy to help you 🙂 

Have a lovely day!

Ro